by Kate London | Aug 16, 2026 | Affairs
Should I Tell His Wife? Should you tell his wife? If you are anything like me, this question circulated in my mind for years. Tell her, and a life you have never met comes apart. Say nothing, and you go on carrying a thing that sits in your chest like a swallowed...
by Kate London | Feb 14, 2025 | Affairs
How to Stay Strong During No Contact With Your Affair Partner Figuring out how to stay strong during no contact with your affair partner isn’t easy. Ending a relationship with someone you deeply love and are attached to is incredibly painful. When it’s a secret...
by Kate London | Oct 24, 2024 | Affairs
Why Isn’t Therapy Helping Me Break Up With My Affair Partner? “I want to break up with my affair partner—but I feel stuck. I’m in therapy and I feel like it’s not helping.” Being the other woman isn’t easy, and this is a common struggle many face: you’ve sought...
by Kate London | Oct 17, 2024 | Affairs
He Chose His Wife But Still Contacts Me—Am I Helping His Marriage? “He chose his wife but still contacts me.” Your affair partner made it clear that he chose his wife—but he’s still hanging onto your secret relationship too. He might rationalise his decision by saying...
by Kate London | Sep 18, 2024 | Affairs
Your Affair Partner Told His Wife About You… And Then You Got Blocked. Here’s Why. Whether you were warned in advance that it was happening or not, knowing your affair partner told his wife about you is incredibly intense and emotional. Anxiety. Dread. Relief....
by Kate London | Aug 28, 2024 | Affairs
I Had An Affair—Am I A Bad Person? It’s not easy saying “I had an affair” —for most married women, this admission brings up a spectrum of emotions. It takes time to process such a significant experience, especially if you’re wondering how you even got here in the...
