Why Am I Falling for a Cheating Married Man?

Why Am I Falling for a Cheating Married Man? Cheating married man is what you typed, and maybe you typed it at midnight, phone brightness turned all the way down. This is a specific kind of loneliness — being someone’s secret, tracking his moods, rehearsing what...

Does no contact actually work?

Does no contact actually work? Does no contact work. It’s the question you type at midnight with your thumb hovering over his name, half hoping the answer is yes and half terrified it means you have to actually do it. Underneath the question is usually a sharper...

Does My Affair Partner Miss Me?

Does My Affair Partner Miss Me? Does your affair partner miss you? You are asking because you are somewhere in the quiet, and the quiet is unbearable, and you need to know that on his side of it there is a version of you he keeps returning to. Before we go further, I...

How do I know if this is limerence and not love?

How do I know if this is limerence and not love? You are looking for the signs of limerence, which usually means you are trying to name something you have been feeling for a while and have not had words for. Somewhere underneath the searching is a quieter fear: that...