Am I just a side piece?

Am I just a side piece? Am I just a side piece. If that question is the one you typed at eleven at night, or the one that arrived while you were doing something ordinary like unloading the dishwasher, you already know it does not arrive alone. It comes with a heat in...

Is There a Cure for Limerence?

Is There a Cure for Limerence? A limerence cure is what you’re looking for, because the thinking has stopped feeling like a crush and started feeling like a condition. You check your phone before you’re fully awake. You replay a sentence he said four days...

If He Loves His Wife, Why Does He Want Me?

If He Loves His Wife, Why Does He Want Me? If he loves his wife, why does he want me? This is the question that sits underneath almost everything else you feel about him, the one that shows up right before you fall asleep and right after he leaves. It is not a...

Why Won’t This Affair Guilt Go Away?

Why Won’t This Affair Guilt Go Away? Affair guilt is the weight that sits in your chest long after the affair itself has ended, or even while it’s still happening. It isn’t the same as ordinary guilt about a small mistake — it’s the sense that...