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For ‘The Other Woman’ Who Feels Fractured in A Complicated Love Affair With Her Married Partner

This is for you if you constantly feel like you’ve met the right person at the wrong time.

However,

  • You're also done settling for leftovers...
  • You're done accepting anything less than what you deserve...
  • You're done living a double life...

Because you’re done living like a wreck since this affair with your married partner

And you’re finally ready to find the answers so that:

  • You make educated decisions about whether you should stay or go
  • You find out how you got into this affair in the first place
  • You learn how to manage the difficult and negative emotions that come packaged in this affair

AND..

You want to become the best version of you and keep an open mind, regardless of how this relationship turns out because...

You often find yourself saying “I can’t let go” even though it hurts like hell..

You’re having trouble making sense why this affair happened in the first place…

You often wonder if you could ever forgive yourself…

If this is you, hear me out –

You don’t deserve this pain and suffering.

I know you’ve tried to move forward with your life, but he remains your closest connection and the first person you go to,

At the same time, you’re getting tired of going back to him even when you can see you’re losing a part of yourself to keep the love…

You tell yourself - “this has got to stop” but always find yourself back in the same cycle over and over again...

If you’ve begun to think that there’s no point promising anything because you never follow through,
If you wonder if you’ll ever be able to let go even when you know that it’s the healthiest thing for you,
If you find yourself repeating “I don’t know”….multiple times when you ask yourself for clarity and it’s all just too complicated to know what’s right anymore…

I want to tell you, that you’ve got this…and,

There’s a way out of this pain and confusion

Where you can finally – 

Stop feeling torn and get off this roller coaster of highs and empty lows and you can start feeling whole again...

Introducing..

○○○ The Time to Thrive Course ○○○

For the woman who’s done with the toxicity this extra-marital affair has got her into and is ready to reclaim her power and live a fully free life.

I’m ready to live a fully free live!

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Rachel B

Head of Sales , IBC Group

Hi, I’m Kate!

Few years back, I was at the receiving end of all the flak you’re facing right now.

I was nose-deep living your story and drowning in shame and guilt.

I had got myself into an affair with a married man. He was a father to two kids. He was also my boss, on a farm in midland Australia.

For 6 long years into the relationship, I had told no one about it because I hated myself for getting into this affair!

I kept telling myself that this affair was my biggest mistake because I was choking in distress, pain and confusion. I felt chained inside my own body.

And when I wanted to share how I was feeling — there was nobody I could depend on.

There was nobody I could rely on and share my feelings with — without being judged and getting slaughtered emotionally.

If you’ve felt powerless to create change all this while,
If you’ve always felt like an option in this relationship,
If you’re tired of endless waiting and the lack of freedom and the secrecy and guilt,

You’ll be relieved to know that this is over and you can stop feeling like a ball of emotions all the time because-

There’s a way out of this chaotic situation you're in right now

And I assure you that you can bounce back stronger than ever with the right tools and resources.

The Time to Thrive course is designed to help you overcome negativity and bring long lasting change.

Women like you have learned to feel happy again, regardless of the outcome of the affair.

And that’s exactly what I want for you to – to be happy.

The Time To Thrive course is designed in phases so that:

1. You experience the least stress

2. You go from crossroads to clarity with ease

3. You unlearn self-sabotage and learn to thrive in life…

Here’s everything you need to know:

PHASE 1: RELEASE AND LET GO - UNDO THE BURDEN

Freeing The Burden Of Living A Secret Life (Emotional Releasing)

  • Importance of gaining the right perspective on your relationship
  • Why you feel intense highs and lows
  • Unpack limiting beleifs that keep you bound to your affair partner
  • Releasing the shame, guilt and self judgment
  • Energy clearing excersises to release your built up pain

Uncovering the truth behind why this journey chose you

  • Learn how our primal instincts operate and why they an lead you into an affair
  • Understand the deeper facts and dynamics behind why he cheated
  • Why you will violate your values to meet our CORE HUMAN needs
  • How to discover and meet your emotional needs
  • Why you sabotage your needs to meet his desires
The MIND… Your most powerful tool, or your weapon for destruction Change your mindset to change your life
  • Identify rewiring your unconscious beliefs
  • Learn how to spot your unconscious coping strategies when facing stress
  • Learn what childhood experiences are shaping the way you show up in your affair
  • How to overcome crippling jealousy and fear that’s been paralyzing you
Releasing and rewriting your story
  • Steps to rescue yourself from this loop of self-blame and low emotion.
  • My unique process for creating new beliefs that serve you.
  • Shrinking the inner critic
  • The mindset shift you need to go from victim mentality to empowerment
  • Affirmation and self-talk techniques that actually create results

PHASE II: RESTORE AND FIND CLARITY - UNFOLD THE TRUTH

Decoding Healthy and Toxic Love
  • Difference between Masculine and Feminine coping strategies
  • True love VS Limerence Evaluation
  • The ‘signs’ of unhealthy relationship behaviour (‘Red Flags’) during dating
  • We will also dive into different ways toxic and healthy love is showing up in your relationship
  • Checklist to identify unhealthy patterns you accept and even crave to receive love
Cultivating Pure Self love
  • Forming a deeper connection with your intuition
  • Where you are giving your power away and how to get it back
  • Reducing the need to please & breaking co dependent patterns
  • Keys to healthy self-esteem when the going gets tough
  • Develop the ability to build trust in ownself once again
Building the clarity
  • Why you feel torn
  • The single biggest thing that keeps women stuck in indecision and how to overcome it.
  • Why you feel so stuck, confused and unsure about where to next
  • How to interrupt the same recurring painful patterns and why nothing ever seems to get resolved.
  • The most important thing you need to do now so you don’t remain stuck in indecision.
Deciding where to from here
  • 5 clarity boosting exercises to know what to do when you love him but you can’t settle for this no more
  • When to stay and when to go worksheet to have you in full confidence on “where to next”
  • Self evaluation checklist on staying connected or walking away
  • How to know if hope actually exists or if its time to walk away
  • Creating your blueprint for a healthy relaitonship

PHASE III: FLOURISH AND THRIVE - LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE

Stepping in a new identity
  • Designing new values and standards you choose to live by
  • Learn how to be deliberate what emotions you choose to experience on a daily basis
  • 5 star formular for integrating into your higher self
  • Emotional ladder and how to move into higher state of vibration
  • Create a plan for what you are willing and not willing to settle for here on in
Boundaries
  • How to set, maintain and honour your boundaries
  • Have the confidence and tools to say “no” and honour yourself
  • Know how to have super-hard conversations and not crumble under the pressure
  • Boundary clarifying exercises and ACTUAL SCRIPTS
  • Keys to becoming more assertive and a stronger decision maker
  • Specific wording you an use to better communicate to your needs to your patrner
Creating a compelling future
  • How to create a future you are in love with and excited about
  • Decide on a path: Get clear on your options and how to decide what you’re going to do in the best possible way
  • Develop Your Process for Change Plan: Define your next empowered steps either to stay for now, or create your exit strategy
  • Clearing DOUBT and FEAR so life design and potential is uncapped
  • Rease limiting beliefs and physical blocks that are in the way of you creating a new life
Your ROADMAP to lasting change… (for good this time)

You have set clear intentions now lets not sabotage that!

  • Learn how to not give into temptation when it arises
  • Why your relationship has become your comfort zone and how to create a new healthy one
  • Practical tools to help you get through the urges to contact your affair partner
  • Healthy and unhealthy coping dynamics when going through breakup
  • How to move through withdrawal and grief when setting boundaries without giving in

The thing is, it’s hard to live on forever like this.

Listen gorgeous, the outcome of your affair doesn’t really matter.
IT doesn’t matter if you’re going to end up with your married partner or leave him for good. What really matter is the fact that you SHOULD feel happy now.
You deserve to feel NORMAL now
You deserve a better life – NOW.
And if you’re ready to start a new chapter in your life, here’s a quick recap of the course

PHASE 1 - RELEASE AND LET GO - UNDO THE BURDEN

  • Freeing The Burden Living A Secret Life (or Emotional Releasing)
  • Uncovering the truth behind why this journey chose you
  • The MIND… Your most powerful tool, or your weapon for destruction Change your mindset to change your life
  • Releasing and rewriting your story

PHASE II - RESTORE AND FIND CLARITY - UNFOLD THE TRUTH

  • Decoding Healthy and Toxic Love
  • Cultivating pure self love
  • Building the clarity
  • Deciding where to go from here

PHASE III: FLOURISH AND THRIVE - LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE

  • Stepping into a new identity
  • Defining healthy boundaries
  • Creating a future you’ll want to look forward to
  • Your ROADMAP to lasting change…

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Rachel B

Head of Sales , IBC Group

FAQs

I want you to hang out with women who know how to sit down and reason when they face challenges. This is such a good place to meet such wonderful women because there are women with high-values and standards who have successfully overcome challenges. And you get to relate and learn from their journey to success.

There’s something gratifying about releasing your pain and trauma in words.

There’s something about speaking your heart out to someone who:

  • Will listen to you patiently
  • Won’t judge you
  • Will accept you for who you are

That’s exactly what you’ll experience inside the Time to Thrive Tribe

It’s a tribe of women like you and me -- recovered, recovering from past affairs

This program is not for you if you are:

  • In an affair just for the sex
  • Not really committed or don’t really care about this relationship
  • Not emotionally invested in this relationship
  • Happy being just a fuck buddy to your affair partner
  • In this relationship for his money and to meet your materialistic needs
  • Chasing rich men just for fun

This program is perfect for you if:

  • You judge yourself, feel shame and guilt and you don’t know how to forgive yourself
  • This double life is a secret and you’re doing it alone and if you have no one to talk to
  • You feel torn between staying and ending this affair
  • You’ve tried leaving your affair partner but keep going back to him
  • You’re waiting for him to leave his wife but you know that’s not happening
  • You’re confused and you don’t even know what you want out of this relationship
  • You’re confused about your life goals and lack of direction
  • You constantly feel drained and unfulfilled
  • You want to attract healthy men into your life and start dating the right men and find your soulmate who adores you, gives his 100% and treats you like his queen
  • You fear leaving him because he is your boss
  • You fear leaving your job because of him
  • You’re worried about losing the financial benefits/security that comes with being in a relationship with him

 

I’m ready to thrive!

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Rachel B

Head of Sales , IBC Group

I’m ready to thrive!

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